Geet-kavita (songs-poems) becoming deeply embedded in children's lives is not liked by parents, because due to this children—

The passage clearly states that parents fear that if children get absorbed in songs and poems, they may stray from the path on which parents want to guide them, and may not reach the destination/goal that parents have planned for them. This indicates parents' anxiety about children not achieving the goals set by them. The passage explicitly mentions 'jis raah se ve unhe apni sochi hui manzil par pahunchana chahte hain' which directly supports option 2.